Wednesday, December 24, 2008

人生没有几个知己的好朋友。
朋友是很多,真的了解你的又有几个?
真心批评你的有几个?
真心关心你的又有几个?
最近心情起起伏伏, 每分钟都有新事件发生。
愉快的当然也有不愉快的。
有时冷静下来, 真的可以看清很多事情。
回想起以前的事,
觉得很好笑也觉得的那时的自己很天真很任性。
刚刚和一位好朋友通电话,
每次有任何人际关系的问题我都会找他。
每次想听真心话时我都会找他。
和他谈天很舒服,不需要刻意掩饰自己的心情。
我问他东西他会坦白告诉我,
至少让我觉得我有改变。

人会慢慢长大,思想会慢慢成熟。
几年前,和几位朋友吵架。想起来很好笑。
那时对他们讲话都会有保留。
也不晓得如何去和他们交谈。
但前几年,我们打开心说真心话,
我们很坦白的说出对对方的不满。
也许因为我们都坦白,
愿意接受对方的批评,
现在我们好像无所不谈了。
也成为好朋友。

人,有时应该要坦白面对每一件事。
可是再说坦白话时不要太直,
要有给人能下台的余地。
这样人家才会舒服的接受你的批评。
被批评的人,要学会接受。
有人批评才会有近步。
以前人家批评我, 我会很不爽很不开心。
现在学会了接收然后去提升自己,
反过来想,被好友批评也不是一件很难过的事。
至少让我知道他们了解我关心我。
打工也有一段时间了,
当中学会如何去对待人,
同事们都有不同的家庭背景。
有时和他们交谈, 听他们说他们以前的事情,
也让我学会一些事情。
人生真的有太多的事情要去学习。
只要不做犯法的事,任何事情都该去挑战。
想清楚才去做,将来才不会后悔。

家人,朋友和情人, 都是我人生里的重要人物。

明天是圣诞节,
祝你们圣诞节快乐
merry christmas, and i love u dear.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Friday, December 12, 2008

Care more than others
think wise.

Risk more than others
thing safe.

Dream more than others
think practical.

Expect more than others
think possitive.
{sentences taken from a book named 'pour your heart into it}

Thursday, December 4, 2008

long and abit emo post.

2008 is coming to the end.
now is already December.
an excited month? as Christmas is coming.
everyone is busy getting pressies for friends and family.
everyone is busy taking leave and get ready everything to step into a new year 2009.
shopping centers are all decorated.
time passed really fast.
before 2008 ends, I want to do some crazy stuff!

I've been working for 5 months.
yea, I'm looking forward for my uni life so much.
as I haven't study for probably 6+ months.
after working for sooo long, I finally understand
why does people say study is better than working.
everyday I was like rushing to work, come back home wash my clothes.
online eat and sleep because really tired after working for 6/8 hrs.
I don't even have time to clean my house. =(
in this 6/8 hrs u faced different kind of customers.
and you have to serve them with smile, even if you in bad mood.
even though some customers are really very lanci.
of course I hope I could continue working in sbux
after my uni starts, but I'm afraid I couldn't handle my time well.
so, I have to resign. sighs, I will be missing all my friends.
and people/friends I met in starbucks.
I've got some coffee knowledge, but still, sorry,
I'm not a coffee drinker, by drinking the coffee
I still couldn't differentiate what's the coffee name and type.
working in starbucks, somehowmakes me physically and mentally tired.
why mentally? you know la, rich ppl come starbucks,
they dress nicely, got hot chick. bla bla bla those kind ppl.
so they like to compare me with those chicks.
xxx ask me why didn't I dress like that bla bla bla.
I was damn pissed off by xxx.
why can't I be myself? hot chick must dress up that way?
must I dress up that way to get ur/others attention? must I?
hello! I'm not them. I don't want to be like them.
doesn't mean that I can only be attractive when I dress like them!
I have my own beauty, only YOU, didn't notice it.
and I don't need your/his attention.
because you and him are not in my world!
我是我,他们是他们。我有我自己的魅力。
I told him all these while my anger was burning.
well, excluded him, all my partners are nice ppl.

this month quite a number of my friends are having parties,
birthday parties, Christmas parties, new year parties.
I wish I could have one birthday party next yr.
but most of my friends will be flying off for studies next yr.
yea some will still in msia, but but but...
as you know, I'm lazy to make a party.
so much thing have to be ready
and have to spend so much money. =.='

I have learn a lesson in this long break.
not to be softhearted to some ppl.
you did something for them,
they will not appreciate you. sobz.
I've come across some problems.
i feel so hurt when i found out.
you think for them in every situations.
you help them. but they might not remember what you did.
yea they appreciate, just for 3 seconds.
anything happened to you, they won't help you.
they will stay away. even when you ask for help.
they will give you ridiculous alasan saying they can't help.
sighs.
year 2009 is coming, i'll change.
I'll only be good to people i love.
yean, you always ask me:'xin, why you so good ah? i won't be doing that for him/her lo.'
yean, I love my good friends, that's why I treat them so nice.
I love you too. =)
happy memories I have,
I'll always remember.